Having Difficulties Trying To Conceive a Baby?
For so many trying to conceive a baby
the natural way and getting pregnant as nature intended, can be such a painstakingly hard reality to face, in
all of its complexity and layers of worry, self-doubt, embarrassment, nagging guilt, that it easily get the
better of most individuals and couples, both men and women. But having difficulties trying to conceive ‘baby’
# 1, 2 or more, can be pretty challenging for a vast array of reasons, challenges and realities.
However, still this ever-nagging question remains so hard for the majority of
‘hopefuls’ to even contemplate, ask, let alone face alone or together with their life-partner, that it can lead to
despair, desperation, frustration and even worse, no action at all, until it is seemingly too late to do anything
about it any longer, or run out of ideas, money or solutions without any real results or satisfaction.
It is so intimate and sensitive a topic, that many carry their unmentionable pain
with them internally, struggling and agonizing over it constantly. But it does not have to hang like a shadow over
anyone any longer. There are answers and solutions to this life-creation challenge, dynamics and
The hopes and promises of a new baby, miracle of birth, new life can overwhelm
quickly – especially if things start going wrong, or nothing happens, or suspicion is that there may be
infertility, erectile dysfunction or other factors not previously known , catching them unawares or by surprise.
Most couples would attest to not really being ready for this part of the journey or for these types of
‘complications’, hurdles and challenges. Many give up, many run out of options, solutions and simply feel like
Whether aging, physical and/or medical, pre-existing, genetic conditions, disease,
lifestyle or other related functioning issues (for either or both partners/parties involved), it remains tough to
work through all the aspects of encountering problems and uphill battles in order to have a natural conception and
pregnancy ‘by the book’.
Some suggest dietary and nutritional supplementation, diet, exercise and more
active balanced living, including sex for pleasure rather than just for baby-making. Other suggestions surround
pregnancy power or super-foods to boost immunity and make the most of your body’s natural processes and
strengthening your ‘system(s)’ and functioning, like zinc, to enable the pregnancy hormones to do their thing they
were designed to do, attract and enable life-creation!
Most important to remember when problems with conception and pregnancy naturally,
is that you are not a fault or to blame (neither is anyone or anything else!) – there are merely causes and
contributing factors that are making things difficult. Stop the guilt, embrace the hope!
Overcoming infertility the natural way and trying to conceive a baby naturally, is
almost the most empowering, freeing and important first steps that you can take, even facing and against the odds,
will reap you results in the long-run, even if the outcome is not a ‘guarantee’ or easy sailing! Beware of myths,
empty promises; get the real facts and only then act! Plan and prepare as best as you can to stack the odds in your
favor and ENJOY THE JOURNEY!